I am new to this forum so here it is, no matter how much it hurts to here the advice or criticism. I am in NC. Three years ago, in 2004 my husband found an email that I attempted to send to another man (was never sent), a month later he found the ones that were sent to this man. Nothing sexual ever happened whatsoever, just the emails. My husband never left the marriage, he forgave me, we moved on and in fact moved to VA even thoughI did not stay long. Two years after the incident, he decided he did not want to be married anymore claiming he could not get over it. In fact he had starting seeing his Godsister, but did not tell me. We separated in March of 2006 and he moved in with his Godsister, and they have been having a relationship ever since. He made it very clear that we were not getting back together. In late February of this year, I ran into the guy again and we started talking. My husband filed for the divorce in March after our one year separation, in fact I am waiting on the final divorce decree now. Well the guy has been over to the house yes overnight a couple of times. I need to add that I had a myspace page and someone who thought me and my husband were still together decided they wanted to send him a copy of my nyspace page. The picture I had on it, was me in a short dress and he finds something wrong with it. Now my husband thinks that I am an unfit mother because of the picture on my page and some comments that people sent to my page, not about my picture. What kind of impact will the myspace page and picture have on him getting custody away from me? Also, what can happen because of the fact the guy I am talking to is the guy from 3 years ago involving the emails. He claims that this is grounds to say the relationship never ended, when he filed for divorce, he is living with his girlfriend and it had been three years of no contact with this guy until now? he feels that I am paying more attention to this guy or myspace than my own children, when he barely comes to visit them. Can this be grounds for trying to prove neglect on my part. I have been the primary caretaker since they were all born not him. Will the emails come into play in a custody battle because from my understanding we are divorced just waiting on the final decree. Please someone help me with this problem.

