Quote Quoting bcr229
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It means when you marry someone, to a large extent you also marry that person's family. If your fiancée is not willing to set some firm boundaries with her mother - up to and including completely cutting her mom out of your lives if her mom doesn't shape up - you can expect more drama, heartache, and legal expenses as a result of Mom's actions. You both need to decide how that's going to be handled before you get married.
After several nights talking my fiance is willing to cut her mother out of her and our familys life if thats what it would take. So this isn't the problem.