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Now, I know in MY mind that I was not serious. I have no intent of actually sleeping with this guy. I’ve never done this before, and I’m now aware that I really should not have said that. Like I said, I’m just trying to keep him intrigued.
In other words, you're looking to string him along; mislead him.

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Have I committed the crime of solicitation of prostitution?
Since we don't know exactly what was said, we have no way of assessing this intelligently.

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Also, is sending pictures and so called “sexting” in exchange for money a crime?
You wrote that the photos were "suggestive." Were they more than "suggestive"? Regardless, you apparently sent them without receiving any money and without any expectation of receiving money, so I doubt that, by itself, was criminal.

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If I send him a text apologizing for I said about the sexual act, and explain clearly that I don’t want to have sex with him while we have a transaction arrangement, will that sort of void what I have already messed up? If I’m clear and try to fix it, is that enough NOT to get arrested if he is an undercover cop?
Here's my suggestion:

Tell this guy you've changed your mind. Thanks, but no thanks. Change your cell number and any other contact info. To the extent possible, cancel your membership and delete your profile on the "sugar daddy site." Get a real job and take care of yourself.