I understand what you are saying. The breif sexual conversation that I mentioned is the only sexual conversation that we have had. If we have a connection and build a relationship and trust then sure, I would have sex with him because I desire him. Not because I’m getting an allowance. I’m more concerned with the legality of things at this moment. I just want a sense of security that I am not and can not be arrested for solicitation of prostitution once arrive for our lunch date. I’m asking if what I have done so far is considered that.
I don’t want to have to text him and be clear about not having sex, because I don’t want to scare him off. He seems wonderful.
PayrolGuy-
That’s exactly what I read which is why I’m saying I think that what I’ve done is a crime. So, if I text him and make it clear that I don’t want sex in exchange for an allowance and I apologize for what I said previously, will that be enough for me NOT to get arrested (if he’s an undercover cop)? Or have I said what I said and it can’t be taken back? Does that make sense?
PayrolGuy- I just saw the question in your response. I’m sorry. The conversation of an allowance was mentioned first thing, then later on the sex was mentioned. But the conversation wasn’t EXACTLY “I will give you an allowance to have sex.” We haven’t clearly discussed the allowance thing at all really. We are waiting until we meet in public. Allowance was mentioned, then it was dumb old me that mentioned sex.

