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If I said my husband took my kids it would suggest that they were not his. Even though he isn’t present, she is speaking of her husband, so calling the baby hers exclusively while he is mentioned in the sentence would mean the baby is not his. The advice is totally different based on whose baby it is.
Again, it is not normal for people to speak that way in the real world. Even happily married persons rarely use the word our in relationship to their children, in spoken conversation. In the context of this thread it was clear that she was speaking about their mutual child even though she did not use the word "our".

I only say this because I think that we tend to go overboard on that particular subject, on this forum.