One thing I might add to this post is that the letter I got speaks of my ex in the third person sense and so the letter is actually from his wife but with no signature. She has no right to get involved with any of this as it was before they married and if I want to get as petty as they/she is, I am looking at this letter threatening me with legal action if I don't pay as an attempt to extort or even blackmail me. She tried to use some "big" words accusing me of deception and creating a fraudulent account which all sounds hokey to me. My ex knows I am a worrier by nature and he is a bully and obviously married a bully himself. I don't want to be as petty as they are being, but I would like to scare them into leaving me the heck alone. Is there any kind of legal avenue other than going through a lawyer which I cannot afford, in which I could file a complaint against her or them for these accusations and attempts to get me to pay this bill? The problem lies that if they do drop this, there will always be something else. Two years ago, my ex all the sudden wanted a battery charger he loaned to my dad years & years ago. The battery charger had died and so my dad bought himself a new one, but to save piece gave my ex a new one so he wouldn't harass me. Mind you, he lives in another state and is this petty.

