Greed? Gold digging? Hold on there. You don't know anything about my situation. My husband has been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder/NPD (look it up...it'll freak you out). He's selfish and greedy to an unhealthy extent. We got married, were going to start a family after about a year and I was going to be a stay-at-home mom. Right after we got married, my husband STOPPED sleeping with me ( I mean that in EVERY sense of the word), he's been verbally, emotionally and a little physically abusive. He refused to open a checking account with me because he says "his money is his and it's none of my business what he does w/his money". He refused to help pay for our wedding. (Our wedding was about $25,000. I paid 10k in cash and 15k on credit. We decided to just to pay for it that way and after the wedding we'd both be responsible for the debt and pay it off. After our honeymoon my husband decided he wasn't going to pitch in for it. I'm STILL paying it off. During our marriage we've bought a house, rented out our 2 condos which we each had while we were single, and we've bought 2 rental properties. All of my husband's time, energy and money has gone into himself and properties...all the while telling me "it's for our retirement"...and it's for the "future of our children". He's not interested in retiring w/me and he's not interested in children. It was all a lie. I could go on and on about how greedy my husband is. He hides money from me and lies about everything. In fact, he just told me a few days ago that he let his friend "borrow" $8,000 out of a line of credit that we have. He did this w/out telling me. So, please don't call me a greedy gold digger. I've worked very hard at this relationship. I'm older now and it's almost too late for me to have children. He's taken a lot from me. If I'm entitled to an extra $300 a month, then I want it. It's only fair.

