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    Default Can You Call the Police to Make a Sibling's Friends Leave Your Home

    Ok so a little backstory on this, my brother and I grew up with a single mother who was very overprotective and abusive. I turned 18 and moved in with my dad and my mom gave up custody when my brother was 15. About half a year later. We both went from being extremely sheltered and overprotected to almost complete freedom.

    My brother has been living with my 72 year old dad for a year n a half now and my dad knows what we had to go through with our mom so punishment is nonexistent. My brother went from having As and Bs in schools to all Fs, his friends are horrible influences on him and he's been inviting them to our house more and more.

    To put in perspective how toxic his friends are, last summer when he was dating a girl (I'll just say her name is susie) she was 14 years old and demanded that he and my brother have an open relationship. I came in one day and saw her having sex with my brothers friends ON TOP OF HIM WHILE HE WAS SLEEPING. And the friend flat out told us he did it because he can take advantage of my brother and nothing bad happens. It took months but we finally conv9my brother to stop the open relationship and a week after that, she broke up with him.

    A month later he's taking care of 2 kittens susie bought but couldn't take home for another 6 weeks. My brother and I have very bad pet allergies. It affected me so badly i had to go to the hospital one night.

    Fast forward to today, my brothers taking care of 2 cats for his a girlfriend for the last 4 months, and now that its summer there is always at least two of his friends in our house. They are all extremely disrespectful, they'll trash our house and leave us with the mess. They've been here for over 3 weeks, eating all our food, making messes, staying up till the sun comes up being loud with the TV on and my dad says nothing because of everything we had to go through he's afraid of punishing him or telling him no because he just wants his son to love him.

    Its 6am right now I can't ****ing sleep and they don't listen to me. I don't legally own the house but can I call the police to have them removed from the house.
    Please help

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    Default Re: Teenagers Won't Leave the House Can I Call the Police

    You said you are over 18, but if you are in such a situation that your life is unmanageable, you need to remove yourself from it, not try to fix it by changing your father's mindset and suddenly making him step up and do what he obviously is NOT going to do.

    If the police were called to the house, he would be the one who would have to make the call on whether he wanted the squatters to leave, not you. And if he "just wants his son to love him" he'd very likely not want you to call anybody or complain. You'd be cast as the bad guy by him and your brother and the squatter friends. This leaves you where instead of staying around till you get so angry you assault one of these star boarders and end up in jail yourself, I suggest you remove yourself from this bad and unhealthy situation. Could you go back to your mom? Get an apartment with friends? Join the military? Something.

    You must accept, this is not your situation, it is not your job to discipline your brother, there is no supreme entity anywhere that is going to give you power to control this situation. A call to CPS/and police might change things dramatically as your brother sounds out of control and was really in a dangerous place with his "open relationship" with a 14 year old (and your father for allowing it!) but rest assured, you won't fix it so you can go on living there in peace, or so that they have attitude changes. There'll doubtless be more drama. You need to get yourself away before you can save anybody else.

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    Default Re: Can You Call the Police to Make a Sibling's Friends Leave Your Home

    You live in your father's home. If he is willing to tolerate your brother's ill-behaved friends, then you will have to accept that as something you must deal with as a resident of your father's home.

    If your father wants to restrict when your brother may have guests over, or the hours guests are permitted in the home, he may impose house rules on your brother. If he chooses not to, as previously suggested, your remedy is to find somewhere else to live.

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