My question involves adoption law for the State of: Washington
So I live in the state of Arizona and my ex lives in Washington, and we have 2 kids together however; the kids do not know who I am because our relationship was a very toxic and unhealthy relationship. She has then found a new boyfriend who she is engaged too and he wants to adopt them.
Is there a way to voluntarily give up my rights so he can adopt them? They know him as dad and has been that way for about 2 years now(they are 2 and 3 years old). From what she has told me he is a great father to them and we agreed on him adopting them and me giving up my rights if that is possible. I want the kids to have the best life possible and that life is in Washington with them. I don't want to confuse the kids by going back and fourth from their house to my house. My ex and I do not get along at all and it is impossible to have a decent conversation without arguing, but this is something that we both agreed on and we both want what is best for the kids and it with herself and her fiancee. So I could use all the advice and help possible. Thank you kindly.