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PMMH
Our vacation is booked, it's in two weeks, and non refundable. I'm not going to lose $8000 because he decided after a year that he wants counseling with my kids RIGHT NOW. He was made aware of vacation times in December of 2017. My daughter gets her own counseling for the last 3 years, every 1-2 weeks. Don't take it upon yourself to insinuate that my child's mental health isn't a priority. He has had 52 other weeks to do this and is just now deciding it must happen in the middle of camp and vacation. Also, my children and I did nothing wrong in this situation, so yes, our lives shouldn't be put on hold for him to play games.
Once your son turns 18 he is a legal adult and no longer subject to court orders, so no, he won't have to go once he turns 18. How old is your daughter?
14