Its not so I can spend time with my boyfriend
Not according to your original post....
Its a lot of things going on & I just can't handle it all
Welcome to motherhood. It is stressful for ALL new mothers, whether they are 16 or 45. As I said, if you can't handle it, I suggest you look into other custody arrangments for your child. You are very young and have added obstacles to overcome. It can be done, but it's not going to be easy
Also I do have a job and will be able to pay for everything..I've already figured that out
No, that's not good enough. You have to show a court that you are ALREADY fully supporting yourself. A plan or idea of how you are going to support yoursely won't get it.
..im not that stupid..
Nobody said you were. Where did any of us say you were stupid? You made some poor choices.
yea i may be only 16 but i am a lot more mature than a lot of adults i know
That's not saying much..
i know what i have to do for my child and im trying to do it
Good, then get on it. That still doesn't mean that your boyfriend has any right to spend the night with you. You have already shown your mother that you and your boyfriend cannot be trusted to be left alone when ya'll are in proximity to a flat surface. She is trying to prevent a second grandchild. More power to her....
i asked for your help not your criticism
You get what you pay for.