Its not so I can spend time with my boyfriend...Its a lot of things going on & I just can't handle it all...Also I do have a job and will be able to pay for everything..I've already figured that out..im not that stupid..yea i may be only 16 but i am a lot more mature than a lot of adults i know..i know what i have to do for my child and im trying to do it...i asked for your help not your criticism