You are ALL so wonderful for helping me with this. Yes we are married and I’m female. I love San Fran and I picked my username to maintain anonymity I am revealing my gender and confirming my marital status to reduce any further confusion.

Really I cannot thank you and this website enough. I thought I would need to pay a labor attorney for a consultation to answer these questions.

Thank you! I will ask for telecommute opportunity in writing; I don’t think they will allow it. There is no harm in asking and will demonstrate my effort to save the relationship if denied.