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Your husband accepted the jurisdiction of Utah when he hired an attorney in Utah and came to a settlement in a Utah court. Your mediation agreement is enforceable because it became a court order as part of your divorce.

I agree with the other poster who told you that you need serious therapy. Yes, your husband treated you very badly but you seem to expect things out of divorce that are just not realistic in the US. You are also blaming the other woman when the person you should be blaming is your husband.
Thank you for your reply. I will then promptly file a Motion to Show Cause, which I think it's the correct step.

I completely agree that the blame ultimately lays on my ex-husband. But one thing does not take away the other. She is still a barracks strumpet with 4 bastard children from different fathers, and that is a proven fact, not a figment of my imagination.

As for expecting things out of divorce, I guess is also such a thing to ask from a husband of over 10 years to man up and face the issues on the marriage like a MAN, instead of running away like a coward, reeling me in for an entire year, lying, deceiving and humiliating me and my family. Sitting down and talk things trough with his loyal wife, the one who never strayed, the one who dealt with his two deployments and what's worse, the aftermath of it. What a concept! Specially when he proudly beats his chest about "being a veteran who bled for country and freedoms" blah blah blah, you know all that jazz. Military values at their best!!!

Anyway, all of this is completely irrelevant. I just wanted some input in the issue at hand, i.e: the mediation agreement. Thanks again for answering.