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casper646
I think all that I wrote was too long. Basically wondering if we should make sure we add clarification in now or wait and use that as ammo against her later so I can prove she's uncooperative.
As for the rest. I appreciate all your words of advice. First off, I did call the dr office, they told me all they can do is pay $25 for the medical records, but can't give me access to the portal. Next, I wouldn't discourage girl scouts, just hoped I'd be informed. I should call the school. I am usually involved in anything going on, so they know me, but don't like to get in the middle of people's litigation.
I suppose there's a mistake on my part though by letting her be in the driver's seat. So I am glad that I asked on this forum. There's no reason why I can't do those things since we have equal rights when it comes to those things. I just don't want to schedule extra appointments if there is one already made.
Basically these are all things that parents are supposed to do in order to 'co-parent' however my ex seems to only want to do the bare minimum. They don't want to micro-manage our relationship, and I'm told these things aren't usually in temp orders because most have common sense of what they are supposed to do.
Since she replaced my daughter's tablet, effectively blocking any way for her to communicate with me, this was deemed not in the best interest of the child, and to my knowledge was made clear to my ex. This was not in the first draft of the order, mainly because both attorneys told her to allow it. I suppose on her end, since it wasn't written, then she denies the telephone access. So to add it, my attorney asked me when good days / times are. I was assured that it will be included in the next draft with clearly defined rules with times and days, hopefully with my proposal clause of "if respondent unavailable for a specified time, petitioner will reschedule telephone access for the next day."