What makes you think the judge is going to be swayed by your statement that you've calmed down and aren't going to be a further danger to the victim?
Understand, that even if you get the bail conditions (or order of protection) removed, you still have MASSIVE legal issues. That doesn't mean the DV charges are going away. The law doesn't cancel things just because the batterer makes nice with the victim. In fact, the state is disinclined to believe recants of the victim in this situation.
WHAT YOU NEED IS A LAWYER.
Let your lawyer make the appropriate motion, if such is even a good idea.

