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WhoDonnit
I appreciate all of the comments and responses. I had not idea that this would be such an interesting subject. I did search Google for answers before I posted here and the consensus on Google posts was "don't do it". I have a friend that is going through a long and arduous divorce and when he left his wife changed all of the locks and he is afraid to go back. He was trying to tell me that I could change the locks but I think that his attorney told him to stay away just to prevent potential law enforcement action. We are still cordial but it is driving me nuts that she is preventing me from leaving by constantly changing her schedule of "stopping by". This morning she texted me that she wasn't going to make it at lunch time but maybe after work. I replied "I am thinking Tuesday" and she replied "No, after work". So I am afraid to leave.....
When she does come I am going to ask her to commit to a fixed schedule for next week. Maybe I'll will lead her to believe that I am changing the locks but won't really change them. I will see how receptive she is to a schedule. I believe that she is trying to keep secret her new boyfriend and has only told her mother and doesn't want anybody else to know right now. She also does not want to spend any money, didn't even file a response to the divorce filing as it would cost her $435.00. So maybe she will "go along" with a fixed schedule. Thanks again for all of the advise.