The problem with lawyers ( and please don't that this the wrong way) is that a consult about changing the locks when there is no indication that there would be a problem with changing the locks is not worth a $500 or $600 bill for an answer when the parties are agreeing and working out the settlement on their own. It would only be a problem if the parties in the divorce are not agreeable on the spouse getting their property.
Here, the OP says that there is no problem with his/her spouse getting the property. The question is can he/she change the locks so that they have some control about when it happens in light of many scheduled pickups and cancelations.
I don't think that OP has to consult an attorney to answer that question as long as he/she is willing to cooperate and allowing the spouse to get their property. This is not a lock-out.

