I don’t see how she could ever sue me if I stay month to month and default. BOTH of our names are on the original lease. I feel like she’s prob. Got no choice, even if she tells the LL she wants to non-renew at the end of this lease. But I am scared she could sue me if I stay month to month and default and she gets caught up in the evictions. I mean, I would try to pay the rent, but I feel like if she knows I might mess up she will be stuck at least trying to help me out, which is only fair.
You guys ... your troll-dar just failed you.
This is a repeat offender.
Honestly this blew my mind when I read this I am sorry, but your at the wrong and shes in the right. If you want to stay in the same exact place than you can just be responsible get a second job or whatever it takes to pay your rent and bills and move on. Their is a reason she is leaving you in the first place as you mentioned she seems to be basically supporting you here and can't deal with it no more.
Going to court is going to make you look bad. A judge is a referee, but he can also go by common sense. If he was to read this would side with your ex girlfriend. When my dad had to evict a lying crazy lady the judge basically didn't buy whatever she was saying. Her argument made no sense and gave my dad judgement to evict her in the end (note this comes from CA a pro tenant state).
As someone mentioned this seems like a troll thread, if its not than grow a pair and move on. Let her do her thing and you do your thing. It doesnt seem your music career is working maybe you need to get something that will bring $$$. If you want to still try it than get another job to pay your bills and still try to pursue your music career.
As mentioned theirs a reason she is leaving you. Your arent acting like a responsible man this is suppose to be a 50/50 you pay half the bills she pays half even if she said she didn't mind paying 90 percent of the rent your suppose to help out in other ways to make up for that. Thats what a responsible adult does.
I want leverage.
You have none.
You don't have anything like the leverage you think you have. I think you'll find that matters won't proceed exactly as you anticipate.
And regardless of whether you have any kind of mental issue or not, you are one of the most despicable human beings it has ever been my misfortune to encounter.