If I am to infer from your post that you're in the U.S. on a long-term visa, such as a H1B visa, and you're worried that your spouse might come to the U.S. and file here, that's within the realm of possibility. Even if we assume that there's a U.S. state that would have jurisdiction over your divorce case it would seem unlikely, given that it is difficult to prosecute a divorce case when you have to obtain and enter on a tourist visa for each court hearing that requires your appearance.

How about preempting the issue by hiring a lawyer in your home country and serving your wife with divorce papers?