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    Default Marital Relationship Approval with Husband on Parole

    My question involves criminal law for the state of: Indiana

    So, as far as I know I'm allowed to SEE him, as his parole officer hasn't said anything like that. But we were told we needed to present our marriage license so that he could "approve" or "deny" our relationship. I sent that, but didn't hear back from him. A week later, my husband told me that his parole officer informed him we have to wait to hear back about that in 6 months, when he has his polygraph test. We also are not allowed to live together, but I feel like this is less as much as a big deal, since I visit him pretty regularly. Is there anything we can do to have this lifted? I feel like it's really ridiculous that he has to APPROVE our relationship, we've been married for 2 years! He only has 16 months on parole before he's done with everything. His offense isn't DV or anything like that. We basically have to be platonic, no sexual contact of any kind. While some might think that's a ridiculous thing to be upset about, I MARRIED him so I could do this kind of stuff!

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    Default Re: Marital Relationship Approval with Husband on Parole

    Why does your husband's parole officer believe it would be inappropriate for him to live with you? Have you actually spoken to the probation officer, or seen an actual court order or written terms of probation that prohibit your husband from living with you?

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    Default Re: Marital Relationship Approval with Husband on Parole

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    My question involves criminal law for the state of: Indiana

    So, as far as I know I'm allowed to SEE him, as his parole officer hasn't said anything like that. But we were told we needed to present our marriage license so that he could "approve" or "deny" our relationship. I sent that, but didn't hear back from him. A week later, my husband told me that his parole officer informed him we have to wait to hear back about that in 6 months, when he has his polygraph test. We also are not allowed to live together, but I feel like this is less as much as a big deal, since I visit him pretty regularly. Is there anything we can do to have this lifted? I feel like it's really ridiculous that he has to APPROVE our relationship, we've been married for 2 years! He only has 16 months on parole before he's done with everything. His offense isn't DV or anything like that. We basically have to be platonic, no sexual contact of any kind. While some might think that's a ridiculous thing to be upset about, I MARRIED him so I could do this kind of stuff!
    Have you seen a court order or been told by a judge that you cannot live together? This seems pretty odd. You might want to contact the court and see if there are any court orders on record. I would also call his PO and if you can't get a hold of him go higher. Talk to his supervisor.

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    Default Re: Marital Relationship Approval with Husband on Parole

    Agree with everyone here that this is very strange. OP do you have any ideas as to why your husband's PO will not allow him to live with you etc? This all seems very weird.

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