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Rmwheeless@loyola.edu
Sorry don't know if this is the right place for this. About 6 months ago I married a girl from Peru because I thought I loved her and she said she would have to go back to her country if I did not. My life has been he'll since then. I am not sure if it is cultural but she feels free to hit and beat me and I d not d exactly as she demands so.etines quite seriously. For example if I don't pay the bills when she deems proper not only doni get beaten also she threatens to call the police unless and when she dictates. She has already had me arrested once saying I yelled at her. It even says this on the report that I never hit her. She uses the fact that she has had me arrested once as carte Blanche to abuse me with no repercussion. Is she right? If I call the police one night I am beaten badly as has happen ed will they just arrest me because I am mail and because the record shows I have been arrested even if the charges were dropped. If I make my real claim of domestic abuse will she just rwetaliaye and make a false claim against me. I would have left her but so am afraid of her she told me if I try to leave she will call the police and say I hit her even if she has to beat herself up. She told me that "she will win because she always wind and everything. I fully support this woman but she says that's not enough bc I don't pay for enough extras and "she will punish me." I am so sickn of being physically abused then havein her threaten ME with the police. Sometimes in our apartment to get me to do what she wants ahe will screw. Stop hurtijng by me stop hitting me until I give her what she wants. I want to get a restraining order but I am afraid bc when ahe made her false claim the cops saw my battered face and her pristine face and arrested me for three days.