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    Default Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    My question involves marriage law for the State of: illinois /Massachusetts

    Is it illegal to confront the other woman via Facebook Messenger?

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    Default Re: Is It Illegal to Confront the Other Woman Via Facebook Messenger

    By confront, do you mean sending her a message telling her to quit messing with your significant other? As long as it's a nice plain "Please stop schtupping my man/woman", you shouldn't run into any trouble. Repeated messages or ones that make threats could be an issue.

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    Default Re: Is It Illegal to Confront the Other Woman Via Facebook Messenger

    You realize that your SO is the problem, yes? S/he is the one cheating on you...

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    Default Re: Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    Quote Quoting AlysonF0320
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    My question involves marriage law for the State of: illinois /Massachusetts

    Is it illegal to confront the other woman via Facebook Messenger?
    Did you confront your significant other before you confronted this person? As long as you didn't threaten her you can message anyone you want. But I would be more concerned with my spouse honestly. Yes - I know it's easy to blame them. I was there. My ex husband cheated on me. No one made him cheat and no one made your spouse cheat. So maybe you need to evaluate your marriage.

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    Default Re: Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    I'm going to flat out recommend that the OP NEVER contacts the other woman in ANY fashion. Period. Even if.

    There is nothing to be gained. Nothing.

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    Default Re: Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    Have to agree that while you may think it will make YOU feel better, it won't. And honestly it will give DH and the other lady something (more) to share...

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    Default Re: Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    Knowing nothing about the facts of your situation, I have no idea whether it's a good idea to confront the "other woman" or not. There's certainly nothing illegal about it. If you engage in a pattern of threats and harassment, that could be cyberstalking. But that would involve a course of conduct, and not a single confrontation.

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    Default Re: Confronting the Other Woman After an Affair

    Chances are it won't be a single contact and the whole situation will spiral out of control and you'll end up getting arrested for something.

    Get rid of your husband and be done with it.

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