Run away from this guy now. Do not marry him. I was in an abusive relationship - the last time my ex husband laid hands on me he strangled me. When I had to talk to the dv counselor and I told her I didn't go to the hospital or get checked out by anyone she chewed me out. She told me that there are women who have been strangled who died 3 days later because you can get a nerve pinched and not know it.
I stupidly didn't divorce my ex husband until six months after he did that because each time he did assault me he was coming off meth. I stupidly kept giving him chances to get sober. He still hasn't yet and is on his fourth rehab stint. They don't change. You just have to remove yourself from that situation and I hope you don't have any kids with him. That makes it easier to cut ties completely.

