OP,

The only reason you appeared to have become involved with this woman is the chance to immigrate to the US legally. You no longer have a way to do so. You do not get to make the rules; you do not even get to "like" the rules; you get to follow the rules. You are not innocent; you are a user. So stop your whining and be a honorable man and return to your home country. The faster you leave, the sooner you can get on with your life.

If you need help doing so, contact an immigrant services agency where you are living or your country's nearest consulate.