I stopped an Adoption of my children 3 and 4 years old. My lawyer filed to establish support and visitation, a hearing date was set for March 20 and my Lawyer was the only one to show (I didnt have to be there) her lawyer didnt show and neither did she. Now there is a pretrial hearing set for May 1. Its been a year and a half since I have been able to contact my kids and I still dont know where they are.
What was the hearing for on March 20? What happens at the pretrial hearing? If no one was required at the march hearing what was the point of it? How many more hearings before some one is required to tell me where my kids are?
Because of this process my relationship with my kids is desolving and will have to be re-established.
I recieved a visitation proposal from my ex's lawyer that was rediculous. I submitted my proposal and I would like to ask people if it is reasonable. I am in BC Canada and the kids are in Ohio. She left me and returned to her ex.

