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Ok, Now I understand your actual motivation in changing your child's last name and I do feel some sympathy for you. I do not think that your reason is trivial and your child is young enough that he won't know the difference. I do feel however, that this is something that you should discuss with a local attorney to get a better feel for how the judges in your area would respond to the fact that you basically cannot serve your ex since he has been deported and you do not know where he lives.
Thank you so much! Yeah, you're right, i guess i'll have to talk to an attorney. Just found out that my parents have mailing address of his parents, maybe the judge will be fine if i serve him at his parents' address? Probably better, than no service at all...