Thank you for your response. I just wasn't sure if the $$$ going to his office, and his secretary would be part of "community" expenses...or if our lawyers would more likely see it as "his" expenses that he should pay off himself.
I definitely don't want to go on a spending spree...but chances are he'll buy me out of our brand new house (with new appliances...new everything) and when I move back into my condo (with older appliances and carpet), I want to have newer appliances that are working well. I can't afford to pay for those things in cash right now...so if I used a little of our line of credit...and vowed to pay my portion off, hopefully we could just call it "even". He was "suppose" to hire me as his secretary too and I was going to work for him (for free) while we started a family...but he decided to hire someone behind my back. So, me being responsible for paying her salary isn't something I want to do. My husband is severly Narcissistic. Not fun. Want this to be over soon. Thank you for your help.