Have been trying to no avail...I do not want to disturb the inherent tone of our latest communications. I'm playing along and not showing her any iota of me even thinking about taking custody...I do not reach out to her as I made it clear that I will not chase after her but, would like to be a part of my child's life. I will not give in to any of her "tests" or games either...She knows I don't need her in my life and that I'm not going to back down if she begins a custody issue...
I just wamt to have all of my bases covered as best I can...
@MrKnowitall
Thank you bery much for your reply, although pre-natal check ups are not being performed into the second trimester, so I seriously doubt requesting a pre-natal paternity test would happen, as she is probably hiding her drug use...I've offered to pay and take to check ups which she denied...
I have to assume that she has malicious intent to prepare for the worst and yet not show any emotional response to any provocation and I'm trying my best...
I'm really trying to be as cool as possible but, I don't want to be caught too much off-guard. Hahaha, just trying to see how proactive I can be I guess...
Anyways, about her still being technically married. Her husband was trying to get her to sign divorce papers after she claimed pregnancy by me. And, you say this may be beneficial? Perhaps it only buys me time? They had been separated for years...If she inks my name on the birth certificate might this then be adultery or fraud or something?
He will no doubt prove to not be a DNA match...She likely will have signed and returned the divorce papers by the time she gives birth anyways...
This may be where I can then bring my A-game? Surely she will relapse or violate probation in this time period unless she's back to selling cocaine...No joke...
Would saving my text messages, especially one where she told me the child isn't mine, be of any use? She since changed her tune...Also, what would be the best way to present them as evidence if need be?

