Long story short, my father has some sort of personality disorder and has kind of shut himself off from the world. He usually bombards me and my other siblings with emotionally abusive emails or texts, but I haven't heard anything from him for a couple months which is rare. Would I be notified if he died? I'm not sure if he has any of our addresses or a will and he could have even deleted our phone numbers in a fit of anger or despair. I don't want to call the cops because I'm afraid they might check the house and I don't want to get him going again if he's simply decided to be peaceful.