My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Virginia
My 15-year old son is getting his braces off next week and my ex-wife is now expecting me to chip in for a tooth whitening procedure that she wants my son to have. Our mediation agreement spells out cost sharing for medical, dental, and orthodontia. I contacted the orthodontist and the reception stating that tooth whitening is not medically necessary, but would be nice for my son's appearance. My ex-wife specifically asked the orthodontist to write a note about this and in it he states that he recommends that my son be treated for dental staining, and that my son was referred to a cosmetic dentist. I'm not opposed to the procedure per se, and might be willing to chip in a few dollars but don't think I am legally liable to support this optional procedure. This seems to be in the same category as ear piercing and contact lenses. What is everyone's legal opinion? Thanks.
PS - For the record I've never had any tooth whitening and I turned out just fine!!![]()

