I moved to Ohio to get away from my husband in a small town in Illinois where his family can make what they want happen and left my now 17 year old son behind. I dearly love my son and have no problem supporting him within reason, but my ex is irritating beyond belief. According to our child support agreement I pay so much a month plus insurance for his car and my ex is suppose to pay for the car. I believe my husband is committing fraud along with the insurance agent by making me pay most of his portion of the insurance too. I have to pay $2600 a year for my son's insurance. I find this excessive. He had two previous cars which didn't work out and I paid for the insurance on them also $600, $700 with no refunds. I asked the deductible be increased to $500, he insists it stay at $100 even though his deductible is $500. I believe my ex makes my son make his car payment although the agreement states that he will pay for it. My ex also does not put his $50/month in the college fund. I have always made my payments and lived up to our agreement. Do I need to respond to request from my husband's attorney regarding my financial information? All this has blown up since I refused to pay for repairs to my son's car, I responded with I pay insurance turn it into insurance. They don't want to. My husband allowed my son to acquire a motorcycle which I object to, and stated the agreement says I will pay for car insurance and refused to pay motorcycle insurance. So once again my husband is coming after me for more money, how can I protect myself? I am not made of my money. My son and husband drive new cars while I drive a car with over 200,000 miles. Please help!