Your current lease is what counts.

Study it carefully.

Also study the GA landlord tenant statute for your rights and the landlord's obligations:

http://law.justia.com/codes/georgia/...-44/chapter-7/

Seems to me that you may be able to ignore the management's "request" until something is put in writing and then push back, also in writing.

Meantime, have the boyfriend spend less time at your place, especially overnights, as you may be pushing the envelope.