one is in good faith, but to bring another person here for a personal relationship that wraps itself in the same possible immigration issues later makes it seem like you haven't learned from your first mistake or that you are profiting in some way from these relationships/committing fraud. You're barely (aren't really) done with one relationship and aren't legally out of it before pursuing another overseas relationship and talking about how to get that one here on a visa. Have you considered moving there? What does BF say when you suggest that? Is it even a possibility in his mind? If not, you may consider whether he is just looking for a way to get to the US legally.

