My question involves restraining orders in the State of: California
Hello, I have recently discovered that this ex has been stalking me online for quite sometime. He had mailed me of all of the photos he could find of us online and my social media profiles or anyone he thinks could be me.
Today I found out that he has tagged himself in some of my professional family photos and wedding photos on facebook posted by the photographer. They are on his profile as ifthey are his. In some of the photos he is calling my daughter his darling and speaking about her affectionately but he has made no contact with her for 10 years despite the fact that I had facilitated visitations per court order and he failed to comply. It just rubs me the wrong way. Why wouldn't you attempt to see her but write things for people to see publicly as if to paint yourself as being an involved father and share another families wedding photos?
He has apparently blocked me on Facebook otherwise I would have seen these posts before, but I found out the tagging of my wedding and family portraits through another account. I have since deleted all social media accounts but the photos are still there because I did not publish them.
I get mail from him every week. It varies from photos to lists of witnesses he says he is going to use against me to "confirm" that I kidnapped our daughter. i havent met these people and it's not true. He sends mail about phone conversations he has had with people about my daughter too. None of this is useful to me and I want it to stop.
I requested that the people posting photos of me remove them because of what is going on. It is up to them to remove them I guess.
My question is, I feel like I am being stalked but is there anything that I can do to get this to stop? Since he is trying to get sole custody of my child, ie we are in court, is there anything I can do about the mail he is sending me? He says it is relevant to the case but it isn't. I don't want more confirmation that he is watching me online all the time or what he does throughout the week. Frankly he is stranger to both of us and he seems like a huge creep.