I met this girl and got to know her before her age. We started off as friends and her parents were cool until we started hanging more often, but now we're crazy for eachother. She'll be 16 in June and ill be 20 in Nov.. We are 3years and 6 months apart. We haven't had sex and dont plan on it but we have engaged in oral sex once. Her parents dont want us talking anymore and her dad told her if he found out we had any kind of contact afterwards he would report me. If there is nothing happening and he were to see us together would he be able to file charges? Even if there was nothing sexual involved? Once she turns 16 is able to consent to having a relationship? What are my choices here? Please Help, thank you.

