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My question involves criminal law for the state of: Mississippi

The father of my child has been on supervised parole for a year now every since November 2015. He is a felon and has a charged of grand larceny. He has been reporting to his PO every month since he's been on, he only got a violation once when he failed his drug test. When he failed his drug test he had to take drug classes every Saturday. She was threatening to revoke him if he didn't pay his court fines. Well, yesterday me and him got into it and the police got involved. I called the police on him the first time because I was upset and was trying to put him out and they told me they couldn't because that was his legal place of residence regardless if he was on the lease or not. So after they left he left to calm down and I locked him out the house being selfish knowing he didn't have a key.When he got out of jail he came stayed with me in my apartment last year.

Yesterday when we got into it I locked him out and he kicked down the door trying to get in. Once the police was there he was no were to be found. I told them I didn't want to press charges I just wanted him gone. Well, they ended up presses charges on him anyways now he has a warrant for his arrest and is not allowed back in the apartment complex. They told him to turn his self in because once they find him he's going to get locked up. He still hasn't turned his self in and after the incident happen his PO called him. He said she only told him that she will have a talk with him when he goes to see her next week.

So I'm curious as to will he get locked up again for that? Is that consider a violation of parole? Is that a misdemeanor to kick in someone door? What will happen? I went today and paid off all his court fines so now there is a $0 balance on that will that help any? I am so scared and I hate I got so upset and wasn't thinking knowing he has two strikes against him and if he go back it will be for a long time. We live in the state of MS. Can anybody with experiences give me some advice.
You don't decide about pressing charges. It's not up to you. Yes it's a parole violation. Stay away from him, stop paying his fines and taking care of him. He's an adult not a child. It's not YOUR fault if he gets his parole revoked. It's HIS fault. You need to seek some counseling or call a domestic violence hotline and find some help. If you keep in this cycle of abuse you'll never get out and it will get worse.

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Hopefully he only get charged for a misdemeanor as well. The door was only $140 to get fixed, it wasn't the actually door it was the part against the wall that came apart. I'm not sure if they charged him with demotic violence or something else they didn't tell me. They only told me they pressed charges and it wasn't up to me. He suppose to turn his self in Monday. Supposedly our city is host a safe surrender event Monday for anyone that has a warrant, not saying it will get him off the hook I'm sure he still going to have fines and all. He has never got in trouble for domestic violence before in the past. But only time will tell I can only pray and hope for the best.

My kids which are our kids are well taken care of they have everything they need, so money isn't a issue. He would do the same for me I know this because he has stuck by me through my worst of times and through me being very ill due to my kidneys. So no I am not terminating my relationship with him because this is the first time this has happen and I've known him since high school. He is the father of all my kids and I would not like to see him locked back up. We have a two month old, and I want him to be there every step of his life because he didn't get that chance with our other two.

Are you going to let me copy and paste? It's a free world right I can do as I please or I don't have that right?? You didn't have to post a response you could of just skipped over my post simple as that. I'm not bothering or harming anybody by just try to get advice. Thank u
Only $140? Do you know what that would by for your kids?

It doesn't matter if he's never gotten in trouble for dv before. Money is an issue when you have kids. Why are you more worried about this asshole than your kids? OH blah blah blah he was with me in my worst times...that doesn't negate that he KICKED IN YOUR DOOR!!

I was in an abusive relationship too and I used to tell people the same damn excuses you do but after awhile you just can't take it anymore. There's going to be another time. Trust me. My ex it was when he was in withdrawal from meth. I would use that as an excuse to say "oh once he's sober it will be fine." No. I've known my ex since we were 18 too. ANd he's the father of our daughter. SO WHAT?!?!?!?! That doesn't mean anything.

It's up to HIM to be there for his kids not you. If he can't be a man then that's his problem. You need to be putting your kids FIRST above his immature ass. You are getting advice and you're not listening to it. This guy won't ever change. His abuse will get worse. You are going to end up paying for his mistakes and arrests. Your kids are going to suffer from this. But it's your life. You do what you want. But stop putting what you want above what your kids need. And you can call me rude or whatever the hell you want I'm not. It's the truth. You're being delusional right now.