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qwaspolk69
Have you been sexually assaulted by another man? Or an attempt made?
None of us were there nor have you provided details to any specific case. It's hard to answer not knowing specifics. But as stated if someone uses more force than necessary to defend themselves they can be arrested.
Let's say that Joe is being sexually assaulted by Steve. He fights back and subdues Steve but then in his rage he brutally beats him when he had the opportunity to leave after subduing him. Well now Joe can be arrested for assault or any number of charges. That same thing could happen if a man assaulted a woman and she used disproportionate force. Or a man who fought back a woman sexually assaulting him.
Self defense isn't a get out of jail free card.
If you have an issue with something you were charged with talk to a lawyer. If it's a friend, he needs to talk to a lawyer.