I am a single female, and have become involved with a married woman. She is in the process of considering leaving her husband. He has no idea of the affair. How long does she have to be seperated from him in order for him to be unable to sue me, if he were to find out? Also, is there a law in NC that would deny custody of a child to a lesbian parent? Just by being in a homosexual relationship, does that deem one unfit to be the parent? If they were to develop a seperation aggreement, could you include that once they were seperated, that each party could pursue another relationship if they desired without consequences?
Thanks for your help.

