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    Default How to Stop Somebody from Harassing You

    My question involves police conduct in the State of: OR

    I'm on the last leg of my probation, with only a couple of months to go. Unfortunately my parents recently connected me with a psychotic person in Canada who they thought I'd be able to relate with on some health issues. It wasn't immediately apparent at the onset that this person was actually out to con me, but I've come to think she is a borderline, and I know for fact she has been committing identity theft and crime in my name, and she has also falsely accused me of a whole gamet of impossible offenses ranging from computer/phone hacking to home invasion/assault. In the last situation she was involuntarily confined to 30 days in the mental hospital, so I think police are already on to her antics. However, she has since been released and I fear that she could continue on her rampage in some other way that could actually successfully get me violated. She is extremely unstable and hellbent on revenge for reporting her to the police for the original case of identity theft. I have since discontinued contact with her and issued a cease and desist notice. I've saved all copies of text messages and internet interactions that elucidate the antisocial behavior she has been involved in.

    Are there any additional proactive measures that I can take to somehow protect myself from the crime this person is committing? She knows enough about my life, and some particular vulnerabilities that she could leverage to get me in trouble. And as you all probably know, you basically walk on egg shells when on probation, and they don't exactly conduct thorough investigations before violating you.....

    Any advice would be much appreciated.

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    Default Re: Vindictive Psychopath is Trying to Ruin My Life with False Allegations

    What happened with the identity theft investigation?

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    Default Re: Vindictive Psychopath is Trying to Ruin My Life with False Allegations

    The woman set up a social media account in my name and credentials and began harassing and threatening people I did not know. I contacted local police explaining that the woman was not stable, I had no interest in prosecution, I just wanted to take the proactive steps to make sure that I wouldn't get falsely accused by the victims and get violated. I was told to contact the social media site to request them to take down the account, and I was told to contact my probation officer to forewarn him about what was going on in the event that I would end up getting in trouble it might be able to mitigate the response. I have no idea what, if anything, happened on the police end beyond that.

    I'm also concerned because right before i requested no contact she began asking personal questions about family members, who are in particularly vulnerable positions to be affected by some of this behavior if it continues on to them. Of course, I provided no information but she already has enough knowledge and internet information to cause more problems.

    Is an anti-stalking/harassment protection order out of the question here? Is it possible to obtain an international protection order?

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    Default Re: Vindictive Psychopath is Trying to Ruin My Life with False Allegations

    With your luck and judgement I would be afraid to even cross the street!

    While The situation begins strangely, with your parents connecting you to some random stranger because they may relate with you over some health issues, weird, you consented and now you, again, find yourself in a serious bind.

    Text messages are problematic as they aren't often accepted as evidence due to the, shall we say...flexible...nature. The problem you really run into is that if this woman is in Canada there are all sorts of problems and roadblocks to deal with and no there is no such thing as an 'international restraining order'. Yes, it's still illegal and legally compelling her to stop is challenging.

    You should definitely contact your probation officer. Hope that he buys your explanations.

    You should really change the way you make decisions as well. Remember, the definition of insanity is to continue to do the same thing over and over again while expecting different results.

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