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    Default How to Keep Your Spouse from Finding Evidence of an Affair During Your Divorce

    My question involves a marriage in the state of: CA

    I have been having an affair, my wife does not know and I'd like to keep it that way. I am about to file for divorce but I know that were she able to access my full financial records (including transaction details) she would find out.

    My question is how much of my financial information am I required to divulge. I am not interested in hiding income or denying her anything she is due. I just want to protect her from information she doesn't need to know and would find disturbing.

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    Default Re: How to Keep Your Spouse from Finding Evidence of an Affair During Your Divorce

    She can conduct discovery and, as part of that process, seek copies of your bank records. If those records will make it clear that you are having an affair, you had best hope that she doesn't request them.

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    Default Re: How to Keep Your Spouse from Finding Evidence of an Affair During Your Divorce

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    My question involves a marriage in the state of: CA

    I have been having an affair, my wife does not know and I'd like to keep it that way. I am about to file for divorce but I know that were she able to access my full financial records (including transaction details) she would find out.

    My question is how much of my financial information am I required to divulge. I am not interested in hiding income or denying her anything she is due. I just want to protect her from information she doesn't need to know and would find disturbing.
    If you tell her, she won't have to find out. You're not worried about protecting her - you're worried about saving your own skin. At least own it, y'know?

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