Your age is showing kid, as well as your extreme naivety and sense of entitlement. You have this fixation on idealism that really has no bearing in reality. Perhaps it's a symptom of your illness (which it very well could be if you have something like bipolar with psychotic features), or maybe you just got out of college and have had no real world life experience yet, but it's clear you have absolutely no concept of jurisprudence, nor are you able to see beyond yourself to understand how you may have actually hurt a young and developing girl. A lot of childhood sex abuse victims don't even understand the ways they have been hurt until they reach adulthood and begin to see how damaged they are, like my good friend with borderline personality disorder. In fact, you're using all the classic excuses that hardened sex offenders use to justify their crimes, which is most concerning of all. It doesn't matter if it only happened once, once in the US is enough to land you on the sex registry for life and that is something you DON'T want to have happen. Worse yet is the thought of how a snarky sex offender like yourself would fare in US prison, it wouldn't be pretty. Good luck to you, and please... stay away from women.
You can continue battling all the posters here with your superior intellect and reasoning skills, but in the end law is king... as dumb and beneath you as it might seem. It can still take your life, break you in half like a little boy, and eliminate any accomplishment's you've ever had and will ever have into the indefinite future. It can put you in a very very dark and lonely place, just something to think about.

