So if I am told to apply, do I ask for a supervisor? or better yet, an ombudsman for the health and human services of that state?
The states I am looking into are: Oregon, North Dakota, Minnesota, Connecticut, Vermont and New Hampshire.
I really really hope that the nursing home will work with me. They can't discharge her this coming friday if all goes well about this and I have a plan. Relocating a patient out of state will take a bit longer than a few days...
to answer the your last question, she was married in this country but they divorced before I even started pre school so I'm not sure if the dude had a green card or not. I haven't had any contact and I am not sure if he is even alive. Her parents don't reside in this country.