
Quoting
just.a.programmer
Some background...
My ex and I met, were married, and agreed to raise our children in Religion A. Several years ago when my ex separated from me she took my son and had him baptized in Religion B without me knowing and he claims to now be an adherent of Religion B and he attends Religion B with my ex on her weekends and now refused to attend Religion A with me on my weekends (and for the record I've offered to take him to Religion B most weekends and he had always turned me down.)
I had a closed folder out in the open (which I should have tucked away after I was done with it) containing a collection of unhappy things from the separation/divorce, and the folder itself is labeled in such a manner. One of those items was the certificate of a religious event from Religion B, in which my son participated without my knowledge. My son snapped a picture of the folder along with the religious certificate. My ex's message to my fiancee was that I should respect my son's religion (religion B) and not demean it. As an aside, my son is routinely telling my ex what's happening in my home and is completely tight-lipped about what happens in my ex's home.