I am only two weeks away from divorce date, but things still have not calmed down. we have a 4 year old child together and things have been going pretty smoothly lately. the other day i told him that i was talking to someone, not in a relationship though. He has had a PUBLIC girlfriend since two weeks after our seperation, not to mention all the women on the side while we were married. Now since he knows that I am talking to someone he is trying to changes things around. This guy was a friend of some of our friends which is how we met. It just so happened that the day before I left my husband I called a friend of mine, who is the new guys cousin, and she had his phone. Now my soon to be exhusband is saying that I left him for this other man and he has cell phone records to prove it. Nothing was going on then, but he steadily tries to threaten me with the records. What should I do? I know that while we were togther that he called several other women but I can not get those records, without a lawyer, which I can not afford, because they are in his name.