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    Default Re: Is It Possible to Get Scheduled Phone Calls Ordered

    Quote Quoting Good Guy
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    The kids are getting older and I understand they don't want to talk to me all the time, but I think a 10 minute call once or twice a week is reasonable.

    They are usually pretty busy, that's why I text mom. I don't want to call when they are having dinner, working on homework, taking a shower, etc... Maybe we just see things differently. I think the idea of calling someone cold is more intrusive than a message asking the kids to call when they are free.

    There's a lot of backstory behind my comment about mom not making any effort. It's more like she is deliberately driving a wedge between me and the kids. That's all I'll say about that.
    I don't see a problem with sending a text and asking if they're busy. Maybe just follow up with a phone call or text her asking her "what are the best times I can call?"

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    Default Re: Is It Possible to Get Scheduled Phone Calls Ordered

    My daughter has a court order stating that she has to have her 5-year-old son call his dad every Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday nights at 7:00. His dad used to call at inappropriate times -- mom was at work and couldn't answer her phone, or he would call after my grandson's bedtime or while they were eating dinner -- and he would get mad and verbally abusive with her. So he requested that the judge make her set a schedule. So three times a week, she (or me if she's working and I have the kids) has to call him for her son to talk to him. So yes, you can get a court order requiring the child(ren) to call dad. However, I take issue with the phrase "make them talk." How can you physically force a child to actually talk? That's the problem my daughter has. Nine times out of ten, my grandson flat refuses to talk.

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    Default Re: Is It Possible to Get Scheduled Phone Calls Ordered

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    My daughter has a court order stating that she has to have her 5-year-old son call his dad every Monday, Wednesday, and Thursday nights at 7:00. His dad used to call at inappropriate times -- mom was at work and couldn't answer her phone, or he would call after my grandson's bedtime or while they were eating dinner -- and he would get mad and verbally abusive with her. So he requested that the judge make her set a schedule. So three times a week, she (or me if she's working and I have the kids) has to call him for her son to talk to him. So yes, you can get a court order requiring the child(ren) to call dad. However, I take issue with the phrase "make them talk." How can you physically force a child to actually talk? That's the problem my daughter has. Nine times out of ten, my grandson flat refuses to talk.
    Your daughter however has that order due to unusual circumstances. Its certainly not the norm. What I think is weird is dad's (in this thread) passive/aggressive way of handling it. Instead of simply calling his children, he texts mom and asks her to have the children call him, and then says it's mom's fault if that doesn't happen.

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    Default Re: Is It Possible to Get Scheduled Phone Calls Ordered

    I had an order where the kids were required to call their Dad on a certain day/time. The judge felt it made more sense since the kids were with me and that would allow me to schedule around calls. When they were with him for an extended time, I still had to place the call so I could speak with them.

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    Default Re: Is It Possible to Get Scheduled Phone Calls Ordered

    This situation reminds me of ... this little delight.


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