Re: Not Paying Child Support on Purpose to Avoid Paying More
I seriously recommend that BOTH of you downsize. You need cheaper childcare and a cheaper place to live as to rely on your income only. He needs to downsize as to be able to support his child(ren). If he got hit by a bus tomorrow, you'd be screwed and homeless and no one is promised tomorrow so I'm serious about being hit by the bus.
If you wanted babies all to yourself, you should have created them by yourself. Until you do that, children have the right to BOTH parents, especially since you found them suitable to procreate with.