Just say "No" and remind her that you have the right to "quiet enjoyment" of the dwelling that you are paying rent for.

Courts imply a covenant of quiet enjoyment into every lease and rental agreement.

Quite enjoyment doesn't just have to do with noise.

Read general information about it at:

http://legal-dictionary.thefreedicti...uiet+enjoyment

Specific to Oklahoma:

...a tenant of leased premises has the right to a quiet and peaceable enjoyment of the use of the premises, and if the landlord in remodeling the part of the building occupied by the tenant, without his consent, interferes with the tenant in the reasonable use of the premises, then the landlord would be liable for such damages as the tenant may have suffered by reason of the remodeling operations as the jury may find from the evidence were proximately caused by such operations. CARPENTERS'LOCAL 1686 v. Wallis, 237 P. 2d 905 - Okla: Supreme Court 1951.

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