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flyingron
You misunderstand that PUBLIC information is indeed PUBLIC. You can obscure the land records, but that won't stop someone who is determined. The sad fact is that there is more to doing RESEARCH than just google (though you'd have a hard time convincing kids that these days). Unless you are scrupulously careful in all aspects of your life (what name is on your telephone bill? Have you ever gotten even a traffic ticket? etc...) determined people will find you. Further, if you DO BUSINESS WITH THE PUBLIC, in most cases the PUBLIC does have rights to certain identifying information.
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Of course, since you are paranoid to the point of not providing any salient details (not to say rude about it to those who are attempting to help you), I would suggest you box up all your concerns and find an attorney to pay who will be covered by the attorney-client privilege that you can be frankly honest about your issues.