
Quoting
amyek
I am self employed and covered under an individual plan. He is paying more out of pocket but is doing so out of the HSA fund that is partially funded by his company. He opted into this plan voluntarily - could have elected to stay under the old plan. The HSA premiums were lower as well so he also benefits from those savings.
We have an amicable divorce - he is in and out of my house daily - I have physical custody but it's in everyone's best interest for us to get along. I'm not looking to start a fight but my income is roughly 1/3 of his and adding this to my monthly budget is going to be a significant change.
To me the change violates the spirit of the divorce decree and what medical insurance covers. We have both worked in this field and have a better than average understanding of these types of policies.